Thursday, May 01, 2008
♥ 10:32 PM
Yesterday was a day well spent after so so long.
You wanna know why?
I spent the day with my friends, classmates, bestfriends and boyfriend in one day.
The day started out with going to school with khai & arep, the JDLs.
They wanted to apply as a librarian in SP.
haha.
So they waited for me to end lessons.
In return, I loaned them my laptop while they waited.
& then, after class, we camwhore-d in the campus.
Lots of fun!
Next, we went to Vivocity to jobhunt.
Well, actually it's just them who went jobhunting, I followed them along.
Visited the coffee club crews.
As usual, iced passion tea.
Then, we headed down to West Coast to play pool with my classmates.
Navin like trashed everyone & he won every game yesterday.
I hate playing with him because when I lose to him, I lose to him by a ball.
>=(
But that's ok i guess.
What matters most is that we had fun.
Who was there?
Me, Khai, Arep, Navin, Pearlyn, Shen yang, Jeremy, Daniel.
& then me, khai and arep bid farewell to the rest of them & head to the library.
Met Mira & Sinyi.
Point of me going to the library is to teach Mira maths but I realised I was hopeless.
I forget all about O levels maths.
Sry Mira.
A few hours later, Arep & Khai went off.
Boyfriend met us at the library.
Went to have our dinner.
It was fun!
laugh laugh laugh.
the day was quite nyonyot.
HAHA.
I went back home with my heart so delighted.
Slept peacefully at home without bathing and changing.
That was how tired I was.
Anyway, concerning Putri's recent post 'one angry putty walking down the street', I think it's ok as it IS her point of view.
Well, what I think is that there is really nothing wrong with girls using their own money to pay for their own food when they are with their boyfriend.
Of course, the myth of guys paying everything for their girlfriend is true to a certain extent.
Unless the Bf has the spending ability of a Hollywood artiste, then it is wrong for the girl to pay.
But if like the Bf earns like less than a K in a mth, then independent spendings comes in.
Maybe once in a while the Bf pays for ur meal or part of your shopping because the Gfs have to understand that...
1. You're not his wife.
2. If u really care about ur Bfs, of course your Bfs need to buy some guy things for themselves unless you are with him because of money not because of companionship & love. Then that's a completely different story.
3. It's your choice on what's the real reason that you're with him.
Personally, money is not everything.
Of course, every teenage girl wants to shop endlessly.
However, there's a limit to one's ability of spending even if you earn 3K a mth or wad, I don't care.
I care more about relationship than money.
Yes, money is everything.
you need it to survive and pamper yourself but relationship can't be bought with money.
There's aways an opportunity cost for everything that you do.
Note to self: There's some profound things that people won't understand but don't make it make you feel confident that whatever you say is right. (this is so not a sarcasm. it really is a note to self)
I've thought things over.
& yeah.
to end this post, PICTURES PICTURES PICTURES.
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you know wad.
I'm tired to post the pictures.
haha.
next time kiddos!
`i am me, not someone else
