Sunday, September 17, 2006
♥ 3:57 PM
this post is dedicated to mahmudah .
a reply from her entry on a couple drifting apart .
tis will be an especially EMO entry kae .
so ppl, i've warned you .
firstly, my definition of a healthy relationship .
it is not defined by the length of time a couple are together but the understanding n connection they both have .
like u mentioned, it was a fantasy til one year later, it changed .
love was powerful that it can withstand any problems right ?
so, what happened ?
why cant it withstand this ?
there are alot of causes for this to happen .
but in this case, Qian Er let it be n did nth about it .
yes, it's ok fer the guy to have alot of friends .
but if the girl insists on not sharing her problems with her friends or refused to keep in touch with her friends, we can't say its not her fault .
this is one good example to show YOU PPL that a girl's love is much deeper than a guy's that it makes de girl's sweetheart everything to her .
so, back to the story .
drifting or merely just sensitive ?
that is something the girl shd think about thoroughly .
if it's really drifting, then de couple shd sit down together n talk about it .
ignoring will not help, it will just worsen the situation .
so, here i am blabbering but for a gd cause .
every obstacles have a solution .
giving up is not always an option .
in fact, it is never an option .
i did a research, how semang-gat .
this website may more or less help . click here ((=
i hope this will put a happy ending to ur story .
`i am me, not someone else